Reply To: “My Fiance Suggested a Threesome With His Best Friend”
Her fiance doesn’t have to be a bi/heteroflexible or have it be cuckholding. It could be two guys having sex with a woman. Doesn’t mean either guy has to do anything to the other, or that the partner...
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I don’t know… it seems weird. It’s one thing to bring up a threesome in general. It’s another to bring up a threesome with your best friend who your partner’s never met. And I agree that I’d be...
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Pick a random guy if you really want a 3-some. Things don’t always turn out well when it involves friendships/feelings. But only do it if this is something you really want to do, it’s not something to...
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It’s not clear what gender the best friend is. Usually when a guy fantasizes about 3somes it’s MFF. If this is a MMF: Is your bf openly bi or at least heteroflexible? Or is this some cuckholding...
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While it may seem a simple thing, like Mucha said, you need to talk this from every angle. But who REALLY needs to think it over is your fiance. If things turn awkward, I see this affecting their...
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She doesn’t mention anything positive about her relationship with her fiancé, yet mentions that she was madly in love with her ex and that they had a very great sex life. What an ex brings to the...
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@K, that’s really not fair. Yes we all have fantasies, and they’re perfectly normal and healthy to have. Sex isn’t a one fits all scenario. What one ex/FWB brings to the table is not the same (nor is...
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Sounds like the main issue here is: how do you feel about your fiance? You say you were madly in love with your ex and the two of you shared a great sex life. Are you madly in love with your fiance,...
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how can his best friend remind you of the ex you were madly in love with if you have never met him? also, if both you and your boyfriend want to have a threesome with this dude, talk the idea to...
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From a LW: I am in a confused place, I have been with my Fiance for 4 years, we are getting married soon. He has a best friend who I have not yet met because of schedule issues and me moving out of...
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I didn’t need to cry any more than I already have been these last few days, but this is very sweet. Thank you.
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Wendy has basically taught me how to have a healthy relationship! I have a better idea of what I want from a partner and a better idea of how to communicate it. I’m a LOT less likely to put up with...
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Wendy has taught me that it is ok to leave a relationship for any reason if it doesn’t feel right. How to set a timeline for a LDR and that there needs to be an end point. She has taught me that a...
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Wendy has taught me that just because you’re emotional, doesn’t mean you’re crazy. And even if you feel crazy, you’re not necessarily crazy. This is especially relevant because I have cried literally...
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Wendy taught me that it’s ok to expect a big love, the real thing, and that it is worth waiting for. She taught me that having a baby is ridiculously hard, changes everything, but is worth the effort....
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And I only say that because a lot of this stuff is relationship and marriage issues that I just haven’t had to deal with yet…a lot of the issues I just don’t relate too in my life (yet).
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While I’ve never gleamed any advice from this site I have gained a lot of insight and self-checking with where I align myself on personal and social issues. I think I have always been kind of an...
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Great idea! Let’s see…. Wendy taught me that its ok to be nervous when you are making a big decision that will effect the rest of your life. I thought I was a bad person for being nervous and...
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I actually wrote in to Wendy and she gave me unbiased advice about dealing with coworkers and friends after I eloped. Her advice let me release the breath/stress I was holding in surrounding my...
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OK, so last night I deamed in DW. It was crazy weird. What it came down to was me thinking this: You know how we encourage lists? For ourselves? When to MOA. What we want in an SO. What is good about...
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